Boundaries Aren’t Control Most men think they’ve set boundaries… but all they’ve really done is make threats. “You can’t talk to him.” “You better not act like that.” That’s not a boundary, brother. That’s fear with a louder voice. The real test? A true boundary doesn’t force her to change. It calls you to change. It’s the line you draw in the sand that says, This is who I am. This is what I will not tolerate. If you miss that distinction, you stay weak. Reactive. Living on edge, waiting for her