5 things I do as a PDA* parent in the lead-up to Christmas… Because festive magic means nothing if everyone’s nervous system is fried. 1. Stagger presents Not everything at once. Breathing room and an attempt to diffuse the anticipation with the lead up to the big day. 2. Prepare individual Christmas food Same day. Same celebration. Different plates — and that’s okay. Options to sit and eat where they choose. 3. Space out social activities One thing at a time. Gaps built in. Exit plans already a